Fr. Timothy Radcliffe OP the retreat director for the Rome sessions has published his retreat talks under the title of Listening Together. In his reflections Fr. Radcliffe spoke about Hope, Home in God, Friendship, Authority and the Spirit of Truth.
As we listen to the spirit, we find that we are all united in our goal of the kingdom of God. We may not always agree, but we find we have a common goal. In listening to each other, we may find friendship.
Here is what Fr. Radcliffe has to say about friendship:
Preaching the Gospel is never just communicating information. It is an act of friendship. A hundred years ago, Vincent McNabb, OP said ‘Love those to whom you preach. If you do not, do not preach. Preach to yourself. St. Domonic was said to have been loved by all since he loved all. St. Catherine of Siena was surrounded by a circle of friends, men and women, lay and religious. They were known as the Caterinati, the Catherine people. St. Martin De Porres is often shown with a cat, a dog and a mouse eating from the same dish. A good image of religious life and of the synod.
There were no easy friendships between men and woman in the Old Testament. The kingdom broke in with Jesus surrounded by his friends, man and women. Even today, many people doubt the possibility of an innocent friendship between man and women. Men fear accusation; women fear male violence; the young fear abuse. We should embody the spacious friendship of God which never harms.